My Handpicked List of the Best Honeymoon Resorts in Hawaii
From Christina at Point Me to Paradise

After years of planning honeymoons and romantic escapes to Hawaii, I’ve learned something simple: the resort you choose will set the tone for your entire trip. You can’t go wrong in Hawaii—it’s stunning from every angle—but there are places that go beyond the view. They dig under the surface. They help you reconnect, exhale, and begin the next chapter of your life with meaning.

Here are my favorite honeymoon and anniversary resorts in Hawaii—places I’d personally recommend for couples who want more than just a room with a view. These are the places that stay with you.

#1 – 1 Hotel Hanalei Bay (Kauai)

If I had to choose one place that feels like the soul of Hawaii met luxury and whispered, not shouted—it’s 1 Hotel Hanalei Bay.

Perched above the curve of Hanalei Bay on Kauai’s north shore, this resort feels like a deep breath. You’re surrounded by towering emerald cliffs, the sound of waves below, and interiors that bring the outside in. It’s five-star, yes—but it doesn’t scream it. It hums.

I love this one for couples who want to slip off the radar, soak in spa days and ocean breezes, and be just minutes from the raw beauty of the Na Pali Coast, charming Hanalei town, and Princeville’s golf greens. It’s peaceful, intentional, and yes—worth the splurge.

#2 – Four Seasons Resort Lanai (Lanai)

Lanai is a love letter to isolation. No crowds. No chaos. Just the sound of palms swaying and the ocean rolling in.

The Four Seasons here is the island’s crown jewel—set right on the beach, with jaw-dropping views and zero distractions. It’s the kind of place where you and your partner can actually hear yourselves think… or not think at all.

It’s high-end, no doubt. But for the right couple, it’s the perfect place to drift through days wrapped in luxury, sea breeze, and silence.

#3 – Hotel Wailea (Maui)

This adults-only gem in Wailea is where Italy meets island. It’s romantic, peaceful, and refreshingly boutique.

Every room is a suite—no tight corners or awkward layouts here. Think of it as a sanctuary above the coastline, with a private shuttle that takes you to the beach or out to dinner. I often recommend this one to couples who appreciate the finer things but don’t need a scene.

#4 – Koʻa Kea Resort at Poipu Beach (Kauai)

On Kauai’s sunnier south shore, Koʻa Kea is the little boutique resort that never tries too hard—and that’s exactly why I love it.

It’s cozy and classy, with a top-tier restaurant and spa, plus one of the best locations for hopping off to explore. Whether you want to sail the Na Pali or take a road trip to Waimea Canyon, this place makes a perfect base.

#5 – Andaz Maui at Wailea Resort (Maui)

If you’re looking for the balance between romantic and lively, Andaz is it. It’s stylish and soulful, modern but still warm.

The rooms are clean and contemporary, the pools are stunning, and the beach is steps away. I love how close it is to both Wailea’s luxury and Kihei’s local flavor—giving you options without compromise.

#6 – Four Seasons Resort Hualālai (Big Island)

This is Four Seasons done Big Island style—lush grounds, black lava rock, and a sense of space that makes you feel like royalty.

It’s an experience all on its own. With multiple restaurants, a golf course, and even a snorkeling pool built into the landscape, this resort is perfect for couples who want high-end comfort and adventure.

#7 – The Kahala Hotel & Resort (Oahu)

Just outside the buzz of Waikiki, The Kahala offers privacy without isolation.

It’s quietly elegant, with dolphins in the lagoon, a private beach, and that old-school Hawaii glamour you don’t find much anymore. I love recommending it to couples who want the energy of Oahu nearby—but not underfoot.

#8 – Turtle Bay Resort (Oahu)

For my adventurous honeymooners, Turtle Bay is the place. You’re on Oahu’s legendary North Shore, where the waves crash and the palm trees lean just right.

This resort has everything—from horseback rides to spa treatments to surf lessons. It’s bigger, sure, but it’s balanced. A great blend of action and stillness.

#9 – Ritz-Carlton Kapalua (Maui)

Up on Maui’s northwestern tip, the Ritz-Carlton sits quietly tucked into the cliffs of Kapalua. It’s peaceful, breezy, and close to nature trails, jungle lookouts, and bays that shimmer in the morning light.

When I picture couples here, I see them lingering over breakfast, wandering through rain-soaked trails, and ending the day with a sunset toast.

#10 – Mauna Lani, Auberge Resorts Collection (Big Island)

Mauna Lani is a retreat in every sense. Set on the Kohala Coast, it’s got just the right mix of calm and curiosity.

Couples can paddle in a calm lagoon, dive into a helicopter tour over volcanoes, or unwind at the Auberge Spa. It’s poetic, a little playful, and a whole lot of magic.


Final Thoughts from Me to You

When my clients ask me where to stay for their honeymoon or anniversary, I don’t just give them a list—I give them a vision. A feeling. A moment they can build their love on, or celebrate it.

This list is that. A guide to the resorts that mean something. Let’s find the one that matches you. And when you’re ready, I’ll help make it seamless—from the first “hello” to the last lei.

—Christina, Point Me to Paradise